Don't let them destroy you
I'm going to just leave this here no post needed....
Okay just kidding. While you are dating you have to be very careful to not make a husband or a wife out someone who is only capable of being a boyfriend/girlfriend or for some just an encounter.
We exhaust all of love, resources and etc on the wrong person than we try to change them or fall in love with their potential THEN when we get with their husband or wife they have to repair them. If someone reveals themselves to you believe them stop believing and falling in love with potential. Because they may never reach that potential OR your goals for that person are unrealistic for that person. To drive the point home I present Brian McKnight.