Be an example
My absence has been due to getting my business established bank accounts, getting inventory etc. The essential things to making it happen. My daughter's life well being etc is too important for me to say look at someone else who may or may not let her down or to busy "enjoying life" that don't realize that someone is looking up to them.
So with that being said make the proper ste8not excuses and do what it takes to follow your dreams.