Not helping but hindering
I never want my daughter to feel as though I'm not there for her with that being said I can't give her a false sense of hope I can't hinder her from life I will be here for her as much as I can but I can't stop her growth because one day I won't be here and I never want my daughter to not live her life to the fullest because I'm not here.
Sometimes we have to let go and know that God will take care of us and our loved ones. We can't control everything because even though it may seem as though we're helping we actually are not we are stunting our own growth. Relinquish control everything will fall into place.