Respect Yourself: Set Standards
Standards are Essential in relationships. It basically set the rules of what you will and will NOT accept. If you don't have standards you will fall for anything.
What is important is to know NO ONE ELSE CAN TELL YOU THE STANDARDS TO MAKE FOR YOUR LIFE!!
Now that we have the standards conversation done with lets go into titles: The term Ride or Die came from having a woman that will hold you down through life's struggles but for some reason it has taken on different meaning. the title has been used to not only describe a woman who will hold down a man through the test of time, But also a woman who will put up with a mans ish no matter what the cost. examples cheating, outside children, basically turning a blind eye to his foolishness. This term can mean a number of things to different people so that is why is important that you are aware of the titles you accept. Before you accept a title/nickname ask the person why they call you that. You don't want to be the laughing of someones joke. (I am aware to some the nickname can be harmless. But you want to be woman with your own mind. And not just accepting a name just because its a hip thing to be called.)
Once again it's YOUR relationship only YOU can make rules for yourself. What I DO NOT want you to do is be a doormat and accept any and everything your partner puts you through because either you don't want to be alone or lose them. I know that when heartbreak happen we clinch up and we start to doubt our-self. We start to believe that our partner through all of their mess is the best of that we can do. That's not true. You don't deserve to be cheated on. Cowards cheat.
What is important is to know NO ONE ELSE CAN TELL YOU THE STANDARDS TO MAKE FOR YOUR LIFE!!
Now that we have the standards conversation done with lets go into titles: The term Ride or Die came from having a woman that will hold you down through life's struggles but for some reason it has taken on different meaning. the title has been used to not only describe a woman who will hold down a man through the test of time, But also a woman who will put up with a mans ish no matter what the cost. examples cheating, outside children, basically turning a blind eye to his foolishness. This term can mean a number of things to different people so that is why is important that you are aware of the titles you accept. Before you accept a title/nickname ask the person why they call you that. You don't want to be the laughing of someones joke. (I am aware to some the nickname can be harmless. But you want to be woman with your own mind. And not just accepting a name just because its a hip thing to be called.)
Once again it's YOUR relationship only YOU can make rules for yourself. What I DO NOT want you to do is be a doormat and accept any and everything your partner puts you through because either you don't want to be alone or lose them. I know that when heartbreak happen we clinch up and we start to doubt our-self. We start to believe that our partner through all of their mess is the best of that we can do. That's not true. You don't deserve to be cheated on. Cowards cheat.
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