Friday, July 31, 2015

Control your mind

 You have a purpose. You have a dream that you would like to fulfill. But what's stopping you? Your mind I have often sat thinking about where I would be if I stopped starting and stopping things how far I would've been. 
  Your mind is a powerful tool. It can make you feel no one is there for you or that your dreams will never succeed.
   I have been prayed over many times people have encouraged my dreams and  each dream everytime I changed my mind (my grandma Dorothy) but no matter how many good feelings I got or encouragements it all came down to me. There will be those times when your room is silent and the thoughts start to come. Or when no one is buying your product.
   Don't feel as though you're a failure because you're NOT everyone has a rough patch sometimes it's best to re-evaluate and begin again see things with different eyes.
   It will all work out trust me

Tuesday, July 28, 2015

All I had was him

Many people will try to prove their loyalty. Try to prove they're always on your side but it will always be that one time where no one picks up the phone.
   I myself have been in a few near death situations, in situations I believe that wouldn't make it out alive at these moments when I couldn't call anyone he was already there. There were times I didn't think I would live to see another day.
   I didn't see how bills will get paid but he was he was already making a way those midnight hours where I cried myself to sleep those times I suffered in silence he was already there

As for you he will do the same
 If you can't feel his presence tell him.
If you need him to guide you ask him.
May He fill that empty void in your heart May He wipe your eyes when you cry.
 May He whisper to you that everything will be alright

These are trying times something bad is always happening. Keep your faith. Keep your head up and everything will work out fine.

Friday, July 24, 2015

Worthy Singer Spotlight: Johnny Gill

This man's voice is undeniable.
He may not always get the credit he deserves but his voice is a force to be reckoned with. To show my love I am sharing some of my favorite old school slow jams from him.

Thursday, July 23, 2015

Naturally Beautiful

   I belong to a few beauty groups on Facebook. As you know I have a love for hairstyles. Today I was somewhat conflicted. I set up a hair appointment a few days ago for this weekend. But I was trying to figure out what hairstyle I was going to get. I  started to think why am I not wearing my real hair? Honestly I have no answer. I am not downing anyone who does. But have we become people who are sooo obsessed with make up/weave that we are afraid of not having it. I can only speak for myself. How I actually started cutting off my hair was because I realized I relied so much on weave I hated how I looked without it.
   I believe every once in a while it's good to reconnect with yourself. I am not just talking about without weave or makeup.  I'm talking about you as a whole there comes a time where you have to recognize you. You have to realize the beauty that you have without the enhancements. There comes a time will you have to  shut off the world and be naturally beautiful.

Monday, July 20, 2015

A Testimony: Your gift

It's 11:45pm 7/19/2015. I had to take a break from my "Breaking Bad" series which I allowed myself to get wrapped up in. I got up reached for my phone and this scripture grabbed me like it did all weekend and the funny thing was I was just going to create the image you see above and keep it moving. But God weighted on my heart to go further and create a post here I am being obedient.
This weekend I have been wrestling with my purpose, my position in life and what kind of life I wanted to create for my daughter. I am /was somewhat envious of my boyfriend because he has his direction of where he wants to go down pat. I have an idea BUT I allowed myself to get distracted. I put more pressure on myself because I want to be a great example for my daughter. Okay fast forward, I started to think of what businesses/ideas I had on the table and I got frustrated because I realized I started stuff and didn't finish. I also started to think how am I going to get where I need to be. I prayed but afterwards I kept dealing with the issue and not fully giving it to God. I looked at my current situation BUT NOT with spiritual eyes but human. My boyfriend and I took a couple of rides around town but all I saw was despair. I made me even more depressed. 
Thank God I went to church because it was a confirmation for me there. It's time out for me to stop playing with my gift that God has given me and that goes for you too. God has given you something not for you to sit idly by and left life pass you feeling defeated. You can't live like that. You have to put on your blinders sometimes cut off what's holding you back. Turn off your brain and allow God to carry you. Stop trying to figure out your future or what's next for you and let God have his way!!! Don't worry how the customers will come or whatever if God brought you to it he SHALL bring you through it.

Wednesday, July 15, 2015

Worthy Hair Check In: DaMasterstylist

 Here's a hair update on your girl DaMasterstylist. Her styles are beautiful and will give you the uniqueness you need to be set apart. Links are under the pics.

Like what you see DaMasterstylist also offers classes in person as well as virtual which I think is extremely amazing. Get more info by clicking on her website link. Don't forget to check out her products also available on the website.

Sunday, July 12, 2015

Worthy Hair Check In: Kia Stylez

Get some hairspirations from Kia Stylez. I love showcasing Kia she always has fresh new styles and her interpretation are always classic. Follow her links are under pictures

          More styles just by clicking read more

Saturday, July 11, 2015

Don't give in

As I have already stated I have a daughter on the way. But the story that I haven't told is the first part of the story. I was told many times over to have an abortion. I was given multiple reasons of why I shouldn't have my baby. These voices or people clouded my judgement. And for a time I was actually considering it. But it wasn't until I got away from those voices those people. And God got me alone and then I realized that she needed a chance. And I need it her. People will make you feel like a useless. And what you're doing in life is all wrong. They will throw they're selfish reasonings on you. If I had a thrown my daughter's life away  who knows where I would be. It's crazy nowadays that people will try to ridicule you for doing what's right .By saying yes to my daughter's life I have went through a lot of stress, arguments and just straight BS .  But when I was shopping for her recently I started  to cry almost  because  I stood up  to the enemy  fed up to all those people  who thought it was a bad idea  I look back over my life  over this time  of being pregnant and all the obstacles  I have to overcome and although my daughter is here just yet  I wouldn't trade her for the world .  And for you  you shouldn't do  you shouldn't give in  if it is something in your heart that you know that you're supposed to do you have to fight for it everyone is not going to be in your corner  everyone is not going to be by your side  but if you know that this is an assignment that God has called you to do  why was you choose the world over God .

Saturday, July 4, 2015

When life throws you curveballs

Life is NOT going to always go as planned. When this happens don't get off track you may have to put your plans on hold and regroup. But everything will work out and maybe even better than you planned.