Tuesday, November 11, 2014


Distraction do just what its name says keep you distracted from your destiny. At church there was a sermon about this very thing. The funny part about it was I was telling a friend about it and the very next day I realized that it was actually for me. For those that don't know I also make pillows and have been off and on since 2009 with this I always get distracted. The issue I have been having lately is the point that I have been trying to help others achieve their dreams while putting mine on the back burner. Every time I would set up a plan to do right by my company I would get another opportunity. I have my retail degree for the sole purpose of opening my own business but I always go looking for retail jobs at other companies instead of establishing my own. I finished a business plan had the marketing materials (never gave them out other than to people I knew But I had them. The I could help other people follow their dreams but I often was upset when THEY didn't have follow through on their dreams although it was the same thing I was doing but as usual I didn't see it when I did it was for about 5 seconds then I would ignore it.

Back to the story so it wasn't until I went for a job interview in the mall where I saw this I was on my way to the back for the interview when I realized I didn't want to do this. The disappointing part of the interview I applied for ALL full-time jobs what did they interview me for a PART-TIME position with the hours being from 8-12hrs I currently have a full time job but I work overnights and if you ever done that you can only do it for so long. Before this interview I had signed up to sell my pillows in a giant flea market a month away to get my business out there if I had gotten/taken the job I wouldn't be able to do this at all.

    I was settling for being an employee for someone else’s company when I am actually an OWNER of my own company. I was willing to work for someone else instead of putting in the work for my own company.

Don't do this if you have a dream go after it whole heartedly. Matthew 7:4 Says
How can you say to your brother, 'Let me take the speck out of your eye,' when all the time there is a plank in your own eye? First get rid of the log in your own eye; then you will see well enough to deal with the speck in your friend's eye.
   Its okay to help others but not to the point you are neglecting yourself or your dreams.

This is an old post from my previous website Confidently Beautiful

Monday, November 10, 2014

Believe in YOU

You are talented, but you don't let anyone know. You're beautiful but you don't let it show.You don't give yourself the credit that you deserve. You won't let anyone get close because you're afraid of getting hurt.
You're strong your powerful your independent but you hide all the talents that God has given you. Now is the time to believe in yourself,believing your abilities. There is no time like the present. Don't continue to go down this path of silence it's time to show the world what you are made of. Believe in yourself love yourself keep God first and there is no way that you cannot win.

Motivate You Monday: Celebrate You

Hello Worthy People

Today I want you to celebrate you. So to help you here's a few videos to "make you feel beautiful" "realize that you don't have to try so hard" and "that everyone that knows is fortunate to you in their life".

Saturday, November 8, 2014

Saturday "Slayed" Hair

When I saw this picture. I had to stop EVERYTHING and post this style is by none other than Kia Style. I love it so much I had to create a new category.  Check her out on Facebook 

Friday, November 7, 2014

Worthy Music feat Request by Teyana Taylor

   I love this song its a smooth easy listening song. This song was easily a stand out on Teyana Taylor's debut album.
   I have been following her career since I saw her on Sweet Sixteen. I am very happy she came out with an album. No matter what she stuck to here dream and made it happen.

If you don't have Teyana Taylor's debut album.  Go get it.

Monday, November 3, 2014

Motivate You Monday

I know Monday's are hard for everyone but look at it as if its a start to do something new. To get you motivated here's two videos to help you out!!